Thanks for sharing, Abigail. Your willingness to have that conversation demonstrates your willingness to share your values and beliefs while respecting the family’s.

Thanks for your comments, Theresa. I might challenge you to consider reframing your comment about rudeness. As I read through many comments, I do not think anyone would intentionally be rude if they did not or could not accept certain foods. For example, I’ve read comments from people whose religious beliefs bar certain foods. Others are vegetarian or vegan. Others have their own sensory issues. I think what you are intending is that you would focus on making others feel comfortable and demonstrating respect.

Thanks for sharing about your religion and practices, Farah. I agree that “the way situations are handled” is really so very important. Respect goes VERY FAR.

Thanks for your comments, Kimberly. It sounds like in your family of origin, especially with your mother, food was a big part of hospitality. Great to use your personal frame of reference to think about this ‘dilemma.’

Thanks for your comments, Bilan. I always really admire anyone who is willing to “try anything” as you stated. Just this week I was in another awkward situation where some professionals were taking me out to dinner. I struggled to find a main dish that was within my “limited palette” as most of the offerings were meat. Always tricky.