Ever been in a home visit with a parent who is simultaneously using his/her phone while discussing the child with you? There are lots of ways that phones and screen time show up during visits. For instance, parents hand their child a phone to keep him quiet or distract other children in the home. Parents may pull out their phones to take down notes about interventions or the next appointment. They show us videos and pictures of exciting progress in milestones, or to ask a question about something going on with their child.

Cell phones and all other forms of screens are such a huge part of life today, including children’s lives starting as early as infancy and toddlerhood. As service coordinators and providers, we can choose to resist or ignore these changes, and feel frustrated with how they impact early intervention outcomes. OR, we can step up to the challenge of employing phones and technology as tools in our interventions and interactions with families.

AAP Screen Time Recommendations

The American Academy of Pediatrics has made a formal statement of recommendations for use of technology for children of all ages in their Media and Young Minds Policy (2016). Some specific advice for ages 0-3 includes:

• For children younger than 18 months, discourage the use of screen media other than video-chatting.
• For parents of children 18 to 24 months of age who want to introduce digital media, advise that they choose high-quality programming/apps and use them together with children, because this is how toddlers learn best. Letting children use media by themselves should be avoided.
• In children older than 2 years, limit media to 1 hour or less per day of high-quality programming. Recommend shared use between parent and child to promote enhanced learning, greater interaction, and limit setting.
• Recommend no screens during meals and for 1 hour before bedtime.

Parents often express guilt to providers over undesirable screen time issues with their child, and look to us for support. Advice from author, Lisa Guernsey, recommends that families and early childhood professionals consider the “Three C’s” when determining when and how to use various technologies: content, context and the individual child. Together with families, we can consider the following questions to begin supporting them in implementing the AAP’s recommendations, while keeping technology as a tool on our side.

• We can ask how does the content help children learn, engage, express, imagine, or explore?
• What kinds of social interactions are happening before, during, and after the use of the technology? Does it complement, and not interrupt, children’s learning experiences and natural play patterns?
• Does this technology match with this child’s needs, abilities, interests, and development stage? (Guiding Principles for Use of Technology with Early Learners, 2016)

7 Ways to Support Families and Outcomes Using Technology

Once we’ve evaluated the values of technology per each child’s situation, we can consider employing some of the following strategies for intervention and improvement.

1. Parents can use video chats as a new and exciting way for children to use their language and imitation skills with a variety of people.
2. Show parents how they can engage in an app or screen time activity together with their child to promote quality interactions.
3. At the end of a visit, encourage parents to set a reminder alert in their phone to practice certain strategies or focus on a specific interaction with their child.
4. Recommend apps that educate and support parents in understanding child development, such as: CDC’s Milestone Tracker, VROOM, and HelloJoey.
5. Educate parents about how to evaluate apps/programs for developmental appropriateness.
6. Coach parents in setting boundaries with screen time and managing challenging behaviors that may arise from this. Help them determine specific “screen free” routines throughout the day.
7. Remind parents that no “educational” technology or program is better for their child’s development than regularly engaging in interaction, exploration, and play everyday!

Share your thoughts and experiences below by leaving a comment:

How have you seen screens and technology impacting Early Intervention visits?

Have families ever asked for advice about apps or programs to help their child? How do you or would you respond?

Please share any great technology resources that you have found in the comments too!

References

Guiding Principles for Use of Technology with Early Learners. (2016). Retrieved from https://tech.ed.gov/earlylearning/principles/.

Radesky, J., and Christakis, D. (2016). Media and young minds. Journal of the Academy of Pediatrics, 138(5), doi:10.1542/peds.2016-2591.

Rachel Todd lives in Northern Utah and has worked as a Service Coordinator for the Up to 3 Early Intervention Program since 2017. She has a Bachelor’s degree in Family, Consumer, and Human Development emphasizing in child development and worked with families in Early Head Start programs before joining EI. She is also a graduate student in the Instructional Technology & Learning Sciences program at Utah State University and loves professional development of all forms. Rachel and her husband have a one-year-old son and a spoiled fur baby and love to get outside in the mountains together every chance they get! You can reach Rachel at
rachel.todd@usu.edu

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In evidence-based early intervention, our primary aim is to coach, rather than to “do therapy” ourselves. We teach families how to help their children. The most challenging part of coaching can be finding effective ways to invite parents to participate and join in the interactions with their child.

Location, Location, Location

As therapists, it is natural for us to think about our relationship with the child in service. After all, we are teaching the child. That’s what we are trained to do. Right? Not exactly. We’re teaching the parent, so that the parent can teach the child. That changes the relationship. Our relationship with the parent, and the parent’s relationship with the child suddenly become much more important when we look at them through this lens. As coaches, we know that the interactions that the parent has with the child are primary and we work to keep those interactions at the forefront. I’ve learned to place myself behind a child rather than in front of him during an activity, or to create a triangle between myself, the mom, and the child. This breaks up the traditional child-therapist pair and gives the parent a space to join in. Locations other than the living room floor that can make this easier include the couch, a high chair, a table, or wherever the parent and child typically spend time together.

Start with Routines

Keep in mind that unless parents have been involved with coaching before, they’re probably expecting traditional therapy. All parents want to be involved and want to help their children, but they may not know how to step in and participate, especially during playtime. Coaching phrases like, “Do you want to try this?” or “Can I model that for you?” can feel awkward to deliver if you aren’t used to them. And we all know, if you feel awkward, it will be awkward.

Rather than starting with an activity that we initiate, we can set the stage for authentic parent involvement by observing the family’s natural routines first. I sometimes ask parents what they would be doing if I wasn’t there. Is it snack time? Does little Joey need a diaper change? This leads naturally into a mutual discussion about ways to increase interaction and language in everyday activities. If it is snack time and Joey heads for the refrigerator or brings us his cup, we have a perfect opportunity to introduce a word or sign for “eat” or “drink”, model and practice offering choices to build language, or encourage eye contact as a first way of requesting. Snack time, diaper changes, and dressing are activities that parents generally do so they are more likely to take the lead and give us a chance to support and encourage, rather than waiting for us to lead an activity.

When You Have to Play

If parents seem more inclined to hang back, say that their child normally plays by himself while they do other things, or are otherwise hesitant, we may have to fall back on some more traditional therapy or play activities. This is when we are most likely to lose parent interaction if we don’t keep it at the forefront. If we are looking at a book, rolling a ball, working on a puzzle, blowing bubbles, or doing any other traditional therapy activity, it is very easy to let the focus drift back to us and the child. I have to work to consciously keep the parent-child interaction at the forefront, rather than my interaction with Joey. If we are looking at a book and working on pointing out pictures, I stand or sit behind him and put the parent in front of us or next to Joey on the couch to ask those, “Where’s the…?” questions and help him point out the pictures. This tends to feel much more natural and I find it less intimidating for everyone. It also increases the chance that the next time Joey brings a book to his mom, she will point out a few pictures rather than reading complicated text because we’ve practiced this together.

If I’m rolling a ball or car back and forth, once Joey is into the game I roll or throw the ball to his mom and have her join the game that way. If Joey is having trouble getting into the game, I sit behind him and help him throw the ball to his mom, rather than encouraging him to throw the ball to me. I find that most parents want to participate with us, we just have to invite them in. The responsibility for not pushing parents out is with us, even when we are working with more traditional play activities.

Stepping Back in Trust

Once we have used location, positioning, routines, and a bit of creativity to get parents engaged and interacting with the child, this is when the magic happens. Once we have the parents involved, our job is to get out of the way. When I am in a visit, I feel this as a continual sense of stepping back from the parent-child dyad, maybe most during those times when I really want to get involved. If they are engaged in a social game or activity, the last thing I want to do is get in the way. I may give a suggestion of something to try, but I often stop myself from even doing that much.

Wait It Out

Instead, I tend to smile and nod encouragingly and wait. The last thing we want to do after the parent gets involved is to pull her back out of the activity again and put the attention on us rather than on Joey and the interaction. Generally, it lasts a few minutes and then the child is off to something else. This is my time to open a discussion, starting with, “Wow, he loved that game and he was really engaged with you.” From there we might reflect together and move to brainstorming strategies. If parents struggle with coming up with a strategy I might share some expertise with ideas like, “Next time you play that game with him, wait a little bit longer for him to look at you.” Having parents reflect first gives them an opportunity to think about how an activity went before I add to their thoughts. This encourages them to seek out and capitalize on opportunities for interaction during the time when I’m not in the home.

While it can be challenging to encourage parents to join in on the interactions during visits, paying attention to our words and actions can help us to create space for parents to actively participate rather than watching us play.

What strategies have you found for encouraging parents to join in during intervention visits?

Share your strategies in the comments below!

Stacy Zogheib has been a Developmental Specialist in Arizona since 2006. She has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary and Special Education from Wittenberg University, and a Master’s degree in Early Childhood Education from Northern Arizona University. Stacy has a passion for supporting and empowering families with young children who have delays or disabilities. You can reach her at: stacypro@yahoo.com

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