{"id":323,"date":"2013-01-17T16:04:32","date_gmt":"2013-01-17T21:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/?p=323"},"modified":"2020-06-25T03:02:06","modified_gmt":"2020-06-25T03:02:06","slug":"do-you-work-with-my-neighbors-child-what-do-you-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/2013\/01\/17\/do-you-work-with-my-neighbors-child-what-do-you-do\/","title":{"rendered":"Do You Work With My Neighbor&#8217;s Child?&#8230;What Do You Do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re\u00a0on an intervention visit and the mother asks you if you also work with her neighbor&#8217;s child. She says she&#8217;s\u00a0noticed your car in their driveway and goes on to tell you\u00a0what she knows about that family. Or maybe you&#8217;re talking\u00a0with a friend of yours who mentions a family who is in your program.<\/p>\n<h2>What do you do? How do you handle these situations??<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-325 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Women-talking-300x198.jpg\" alt=\"Two Women Talking\" width=\"300\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Women-talking-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Women-talking.jpg 448w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>Do you spill the beans because this mother obviously already knows that you work with her neighbor?<\/p>\n<p>Do you go ahead and tell your friend because you know you can trust her?<\/p>\n<p>Or do you politely decline to answer? How do you say that you can&#8217;t talk about other families? 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