{"id":486,"date":"2013-02-28T08:41:47","date_gmt":"2013-02-28T13:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/?p=486"},"modified":"2020-06-25T02:53:24","modified_gmt":"2020-06-25T02:53:24","slug":"youre-invited-what-do-you-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/2013\/02\/28\/youre-invited-what-do-you-do\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Invited&#8230;What Do You Do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-487\" src=\"http:\/\/veipd.org\/earlyintervention\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/MP900384896-251x300.jpg\" alt=\"Happy Birthday Balloons, Candle, Bear, Hats\" width=\"156\" height=\"189\" \/>Balloons, cake, friends\u2026who doesn\u2019t like a party? And how many invitations to a child\u2019s birthday party have you received?<\/p>\n<p>In early intervention, we constantly walk that thin line between establishing rapport and maintaining professional boundaries with families. It is important that a collaborative, trusting relationship between family members and early interventionists is established and nurtured. This parent-provider partnership is a key element in effective coaching.<\/p>\n<p>Learning to differentiate between that rapport building and professional boundaries is often challenging, especially for new providers.\u00a0 You want to form a bond with the child and the family. You want to be friendly and engaging. You want to support them, especially when they are facing struggles or challenges. Let\u2019s face it, most of us got into this line of work because we really like being good \u201chelp givers.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>On the flip side, should you be the mother\u2019s closest friend? Should you share intimate details of your personal life? Should you run errands for the family, or fold the laundry while you are chatting OR go to the child\u2019s birthday party?<\/p>\n<h2>Consider a few tips to help keep those professional boundaries \u201cin check.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Learn your agency\u2019s policies related to professional boundaries.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many agencies have policies or regulations that specifically address professional boundaries. These written guidelines may come in handy when a parent asks you to do something that feels like you are crossing that proverbial line. \u201cI\u2019m sorry. I\u2019m not allowed to give you my personal cell phone number. It\u2019s against our agency policies.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Become familiar with the code of ethics or conduct for your discipline.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many discipline-specific associations or boards have well defined codes of ethics or conduct. For example, the American Physical Therapy Association\u2019s Code of Ethics states that \u201cPhysical therapists shall not accept gifts or other considerations that influence or give an appearance of influencing their professional judgment.\u201d The American Speech-Language-Hearing Association\u2019s Code of Ethics indicates that \u201cIndividuals shall not reveal, without authorization, any professional or personal information about identified persons served professionally.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0So the next time a parent says, \u201cI heard you were going to start seeing my neighbor\u2019s child, Johnny,\u201d you can politely inform the parent that you are bound by confidentiality rules to help respect the rights of all children and families.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Access your supervisor if you need guidance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes the decisions that early interventionists have to make are not quite so clear cut. If in doubt, talk with your supervisor about the situation.\u00a0 If maintaining professional boundaries is becoming difficult with a particular family, it may be necessary to consider another provider.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Have you had a dilemma with professional boundaries? How did you manage the situation?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Balloons, cake, friends\u2026who doesn\u2019t like a party? And how many invitations to a child\u2019s birthday party have you received? In early intervention, we constantly walk that thin line between establishing rapport and maintaining professional boundaries with families. It is important that a collaborative, trusting relationship between family members and early interventionists is established and nurtured. 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